Topic: Minnesota update
Tonight's finals were pretty tame. The opening ceremony's star spangled banner was done by a male chorus..very cool. Paul was in the 1st heat of the second to last event, so after warm-ups, we all spent some time watching the other swimmers compete. There is so much awesome competition in the S-6 levels on up. The S-7 has tons of swimmers, so several heats and very close races. It was much like a high school swim meet. The crowd was screaming and cheering (so were we!). In the lower levels, there are far fewer competitors. They show this video called "amazing awaits" and it's all about the para games. It says in their statistics that LESS than 10% of handicapped people are involved in any kind of sport! If more of them would do this, Paul could have some competition.
He swam his 100 free (all suited up!) and even though he got "stuck" on the wall during his turn (he spasmed and had a hard time doing his turn), he still dropped 2 seconds off his time and ended up in 3rd place. Overall, he got 2 second placements and 2 third placements. He (of course) was disappointed. I tried to focus on the positive aspects of all of this, but he did explain to me that he has a competitive nature. He said, "I don't mind being middle of the pack, but to be in a group that I don't belong in, or that I have no chance of EVER getting in the top 3 placements is very disappointing." I can understand that and I do have to respect it (as hard as it is for me to hear). I know this is not about me (or what I might want). He was most pleased with the fact that all of his times were his personal bests since he's been swimming (as a paralyzed person).
So overall..a positive experience (okay..maybe a little bittersweet). None of us have any regrets about coming. I think we need to go home and regroup.
There is a group of event riders (lots that I ride with) that are having a fundraiser for Paul tomorrow. It's a 2 phase event and the entries will pay for this trip to MN. Karin (my trainer) got this whole thing going. Jackie was my contact person while Karin was in FL. Gail Lehman (who I don't even personally know) was kind enough to donate her farm for this event. I am proud to know such a wonderful and supportive group of people, and I am very grateful for all of the hard work that's being done to make this happen. I also want to say a special thanks to Mom and A Anne for doing the concessions at the event (and to Mom for helping with the little boys ~once again~ while I was away). I wish very much that I could be there to thank everyone personally! My thoughts will be there (as we are traveling back to NY).
Love to all,
Jean